LXXXI
Intimacy
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That friendship is called intimacy which submitteth without resenting to all the freedoms taken by the beloved one.
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To be free and easy with each other, that is the heart of true friendship: and it is the part of worthy men never to resent such familiarities.
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Of what avail is friendship that is longstanding if it acquiesceth not in the liberties taken in its name?
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When friends rely on their intimacy and do a thing without leave, the warmhearted will think of their love and will take it in good part.
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When friends do a thing that paineth thee, account thou it as much to their feeling of perfect oneness with thee as to their ignorance.
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The perfect friend giveth not up the friend of his heart even though he hath been the cause of his ruin.
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Behold the man who hath loved dearly and long: he bateth not in his affection for his friend even though he cause him damage frequently.
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Behold the men who refuse to listen to any imputations against the friend of their bosom: the day that he doth them an injury is a feast-day unto them.33
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Behold the man who loveth another with a deathless affection: the whole world will hold him dear.
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Behold the men that alter not in their affection for their old friends: even enemies will look upon them with tenderness.