LXXX
Testing of Fitness for Friendship
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There is no greater ill than making a friend without first testing him: for, once a friendship is formed, there is no giving it up for the man of heart.
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Behold the man that maketh men his friends without previously testing them: he courteth disasters which will only end in his death.
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Take into thy consideration the family of the man whom thou desirest to make thy friend, his virtues and his vices, and the whole range of his associates and connections: and then befriend him if he is worthy.
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Behold the man who is born of a good family and who dreadeth disgrace: one ought to acquire his friendship even by paying a price for it if necessary.
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Look for the men who know the way of the wise and can reprove and chastise thee whenever thou go astray: and make them thy friends.
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There is a virtue even in misfortune: for it is the rod wherewith to measure thy friends.
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To discard the friendship of fools, that is veritable profit for a man.
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Think not the thoughts that depress the heart: nor make the friendship of men who will abandon thee the moment thou art down.
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The friendship of men that betray in the day of disaster would burn the heart that thinketh on it even at the moment of death.
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Cultivate with ardour the friendship of the pure; as to men that are unworthy of thee, discard thou their association even if it be by giving them a present.